a little drain to dive in

There are certain things in life where you know it's a mistake but you don't really know it's a mistake because the only way to really know it is a mistake is to make that mistake and look back and say, 

"Yup, that was a mistake".

So really, the bigger mistake would be to not make the mistake because then you'll go your whole life not really knowing if something is a mistake or not.

-Lily on How I met Your Mother.

make mistakes, break a heart, have your heart broken, be depressed, fall on the ground,being stabbed on your back, fail a lot of things, get jealous, get angry, get someone to shout at you, forced to cry, feel the longing, feel the emptiness,miss,missing,lose, get lost,go against the world, go down down downn.. get back to your feet

live the life,

love,

and

learn some more.

be grateful of what you 'were' going through had made you what you 'are' now, a better you.